Jennifer Lopez is reportedly grappling with intense emotions following her decision to file for divorce from Ben Affleck, with sources close to the situation revealing the star is “upset and disappointed” with her estranged husband.
The 55-year-old “Atlas” star officially filed for divorce on August 20, exactly two years after the couple’s lavish wedding celebration in Georgia. Court documents list April 26 as the date of separation, indicating the relationship had been strained for months before the public announcement.
“It’s really hit her hard,” an insider told PEOPLE magazine, speaking about Lopez’s current emotional state. “She’s very upset and disappointed with Ben.” The source’s comments shed light on the personal toll the split is taking on the multi-talented performer.
The divorce filing comes after a summer spent largely apart, fueling speculation about the state of their relationship. Lopez’s decision to file without an attorney present has been interpreted by legal experts as a sign that she “just wanted to get this done” and move forward, suggesting a desire for a swift resolution to the marriage.
Adding to Lopez’s emotional burden is the couple’s shared $60 million Beverly Hills mansion, purchased in May 2023. “She and Ben bought the house for the whole family. It’s way too big for her and filled with too many memories as well,” the source revealed, highlighting the practical and emotional challenges Lopez now faces.
The property was intended to be a home for their blended family, which includes Affleck’s three children with ex-wife Jennifer Garner – Violet (18), Seraphina (15), and Samuel (12) – as well as Lopez’s 16-year-old twins, Max and Emme, from her previous marriage to Marc Anthony.
Despite the difficult circumstances, another source indicated that Lopez is “doing as well as she can” and even “seems relieved” after taking the step to file for divorce. This insider noted that Lopez had initially hoped to salvage the relationship, stating, “She didn’t want a divorce. She wanted to figure things out.”
As Lopez navigates this challenging period, Affleck was spotted dining out with longtime friend and collaborator Matt Damon and Damon’s wife Luciana at Los Angeles restaurant Toscana on Sunday, August 25. Sources describe the 52-year-old Oscar-winning filmmaker as “doing well and very focused” in the wake of the divorce filing.
Source: People.com